Journal 2

    So far in India, I have learned that I do not need to have all the answers, and that some of the best learning happens when I just listen. After two Consent Cafes at two different schools, I have realized that the students are teaching me just as much as I am teaching them, and that has been a really special experience for me. One thing that has especially stood out to me is learning about how culture shapes relationships and decision-making. At the nursing college, students shared their perspectives on topics such as arranged marriages, asking parents for permission to date, and even asking for approval to get a tattoo as an adult. These conversations helped me understand that ideas around consent, relationships, and independence can look very different depending on where you live and how you were raised. I had some previous assumptions about how these topics would be viewed in India, but the students expanded my understanding in ways I did not expect, and I appreciate so much. I have also been so touched by the warm welcomes we have received. The students at the nursing college greeted us with so much kindness and hospitality, including a beautiful candle ceremony and traditional dances. These moments made me almost want to cry and showed me how meaningful cultural exchange can be.

    One of my favourite parts so far has been reading the students’ feedback. Seeing their comments about the sessions and reading the kind things they wrote about me was encouraging. As a student myself, it is easy to doubt myself sometimes, so their feedback helped build my confidence. It reminded me that being approachable, respectful, and willing to listen can make a difference, and that I do not need to have all the answers to connect with people.

    After only two schools, I already feel like I am learning a lot about myself and the kind of social worker I want to become. Most importantly, I am learning that growth often comes from listening rather than leading, and that I can trust myself more and doubt myself less.